Life : Talking about hatred...

Assalamualaikum, hi again! Ok, let's just go straight to the point.. I have this one principle - I'd rather be hated than be forgotten.. Well, you may think that this is ridiculous but let review my reason.. Ok, for me, there are only 3 reasons for us to hate someone.. First of all, we hate certain people because of their attitude and personality, which is bad of course, or in a nicer context, incompatible with ours.. Well, this is common.. The second one is jealousy.. Sure, when we're jealous of that person, of course we'll hate his or her guts.. The third and the last one is when the person that we trust or love broke our heart.. Ok, I'm actually want to focus on the last one, breach of trust and love.. When we're hated by this person because of this, I think we should be thankful.. Don't get me wrong, I don't mean making enemy is a way of living.. It's just that, if we're happen to be hated for this reason, that means that he or she had once loved us.. The more he or she hate us, the bigger their love.. One more thing, there's a thin line between love and hate.. Both of the feelings give the same signal that sometimes we're confused.. What I'm saying is that, if we're hated by this person, we can drift the hatred into love as it walk side by side.. But, if we're forgotten, totally out of the person's mind, we have to start from the root with that person.. And, being forgotten is just among the worst feeling that we could ever feel (unless you forgot about that person too :D) Though, I'm not saying that breach of trust and love is a good thing.. That's just the worst thing that we could do to ANYONE.. So, my message is, if you're hated by one or two people (which are very special in your life), don't be upset.. It just means that they love you too much.. (and quickly apologize to them, of course :D) If you're hated by few people or I'd rather say a group of people, just be grateful cause it means that they're just jealous of you.. But, if you're hated by too many people, sorry to tell you buddy, you gotta change your attitude.. So, that's all for now, I hope my post doesn't bore you..
Assalamualaikum :)